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The Monk Who Only Gave Questions

Others' Need and Your Spiritual Journey

Jan 11, 2008

Saying For Today: The one who draws near to God and fails to draw near to others soon is drawn away from God.


Wisdom Story

There's a monk there who will never give you advice, but only a question. I was told his questions could be very helpful. I sought him out. "I am a parish priest," I said. "I'm here on retreat. Could you give me a question?"

"Ah, yes," he answered. "My question is, 'What do they need?'"

I came away disappointed. I spent a few hours with the question, writing out answers, but finally I went back to him.

"Excuse me. Perhaps I didn't make myself clear. Your question has been helpful, but I wasn't so much interested in thinking about my apostolate during this retreat. Rather, I wanted to think seriously about my own spiritual life. Could you give me a question for my own spiritual life?"

"Ah, I see. Then my question is, 'What do they REALLY need?'"

*Father Theophane. In Jack Kornfield and Christina Feldman. Soul Food: Stories to Nourish the Spirit & Heart.

Spiritual Exercise

Reflect upon the story above. What does it say to you about your spiritual life?

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